Should i tell my fwb co worker i love him?

I can't go on like this anymore. AT first i thougth we were dating, then he said he wanted to be friends, wasn't ready to date anybody, we see each other 2-3 times a week, catch movies, hang out with friends, watch videos, occionally have . I FEEL like we're dating, but he says he needs to work on himself (bad breakup). I've started datinga wonderful guy, but all I think about is my fwb, constantly. Should I tell him I love him before I try to move on to see how he feels? and I don't know if I can move on!