ME AND MY HUSBAND..differrnt churches!!!?? ARE U SERIOUS???

my future husband just told me thaat he doesnt tink he can grow in my church and that he wants to find a church that best suits him. i grew up in my church and i dont want to leave. cuz it helps me!!! i dont want us to be married going to differnt churches..and then we have children and my chuld says "what do u want me to wear to church mommy" and then me going" well you going to daddy;s church this sunday baby so wat do u tihnk u should wear." we both christians and tru we both serve the same god but its like not onrmal. unnatural. not at all wat i pictured. AND then just wat if i try to be with him in his church but his church doesnt furfill me spiritually. wat do i do.I deserve to be somewhere where i feel comforatable same with him.....you guys help m..and dont patronize me ou can see that im trying to look at it from both angles!!!