My cousin has recently moved in with us which I had no say in this weekend my bf was over but I thought?

Tell her she has broken your Ipod, and that you would appreciate it if she would either get it repaired or get a new one for you, and dont drop friends for her, she obviously wont for you. its not your fault your not working, as long as your looking and helping out at home. Dont let her walk all over you stick up for yourself.